Navigating the Aftermath: Confronting PTSD Head-On
It is time that Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and the associated mental health issues are brought to the forefront. I have been clinically diagnosed with PTSD associated with Depression and Anxiety with a rating from the Department of Veterans Affairs as a service-connected disability due to a traumatic event that I suffered in the U.S. Navy.
After leaving the U.S. Navy in 2001, I found myself at a crossroads when the events of September 11, 2001, unfolded, sparking the War on Terror. In response to this pivotal moment, I made the decision to reenlist, this time transitioning into the U.S. Air Force. However, my return to military service was met with unexpected challenges as I struggled to acclimate to a new culture and way of life that felt vastly different from my experience in the Navy.
On two occasions, I faced disorientation and a sense of aimlessness upon transitioning out of the military. I drifted between various jobs and locations until I eventually found a semblance of direction. This led me to pursue a career with the Department of the Air Force as a civilian, only to encounter a roadblock in my professional journey. This setback prompted me to make a significant change, relocating across the country to a new state and industry in order to preserve my mental well-being.
And I suppose you could consider my separation from the Air Force as a civilian the third instance of feeling lost and disoriented. Heck, I was even heartbroken when I left!
I encountered unforeseen obstacles in which unfortunately hindered my ability to progress within the organization. Despite my best efforts to navigate through some of the challenges that I was facing at work, it became clear that continuing in my current role was not feasible. As a result, I made the difficult decision to pursue other opportunities that aligned better with my career aspirations and personal well-being.
Reflecting on the past, I now recognize how PTSD silently infiltrated not only my professional endeavors but also seeped into my personal life and financial stability. In hindsight, it’s evident that the impact of this condition was far-reaching.
Interestingly, my father’s generation often referred to it as “Shellshock” syndrome, a term that has circulated for decades. My father, a seasoned combat veteran with two tours in Vietnam and a lengthy career as a combat flight engineer, served as my inspiration to enlist. His experiences, coupled with my desire to break free from the confines of a broken home and hometown, fueled my aspiration to pursue something greater in life.
My time in the Navy was brief, and unfortunately, it wasn’t a positive experience. It took me years to realize the extent of my struggles, but with hindsight and understanding, I now recognize that I was grappling with PTSD. Acknowledging this condition by name empowers me to confront it directly and advocate for greater awareness and support.
As I embarked on my journey to confront the traumas stemming from my military service, I also found myself confronting unresolved childhood traumas. This additional layer of complexity added depth to my healing process, highlighting the interconnectedness of past and present experiences. In my pursuit of understanding and healing, I realized the importance of addressing all facets of my emotional well-being
It’s time to shine a spotlight on PTSD and address it head-on, ensuring that those affected receive the care and attention they deserve.
PTSD is, in fact, not a disease or an illness. It is the body’s psychological response with the inability to cope after a traumatic experience. There are so many variables of PTSD. I’m rated at 70% so I’m not entirely disabled nor fully functional. Just stuck in-between. The psychological aspects of PTSD are complicated and affect people differently depending on the trauma.
It will never go away, especially when one experiences what is known as a trigger. However, in time, it can be manageable and with a proactive approach to self-care and reaching out for help, you can control it instead of it controlling you. Only you can give yourself that power to take back your life.
Let me say that again:
You can control it instead of it controlling you. Only you can give yourself that power to take back your life.
Transitioning from the military, as highlighted by Sebastian Junger in his book “Tribe,” underscores the importance of strength and support in navigating this significant life change. Junger emphasizes how groups offer crucial solidarity, particularly evident in professions like the Fire Service and Military, where individuals form tight-knit bonds through shared experiences. These bonds provide a vital support structure, fostering resilience and aiding in the adjustment to civilian life.
However, transitioning from the military can be an arduous process, with profound implications for mental well-being. As someone who has experienced this firsthand, I understand the stress associated with adapting to a new environment, establishing new routines, and grappling with the loss of military identity. These challenges can exacerbate mental health conditions such as PTSD, anxiety, and depression, underscoring the need for proactive support and coping mechanisms.
Navigating the transition also involves navigating the unique cultural differences between military and civilian life. The shift in norms, expectations, and work environments can be overwhelming, further emphasizing the importance of prioritizing mental health. Seeking support from peers, mentors, and loved ones who understand these challenges can provide invaluable guidance and understanding during this transition period.
Moreover, the transition often comes with its own set of career and financial stressors. Job uncertainty, financial concerns, and the pressure to secure employment quickly can impact mental well-being. Prioritizing mental health equips individuals with the resilience to manage stress, make informed decisions, and maintain a positive outlook during the job search process.
Through my own journey, I’ve come to recognize the overarching significance of mental health for transitioning service members. By prioritizing mental well-being, I’ve found the resilience to overcome obstacles, nurture positive relationships, and enjoy a balanced and fulfilling life during and after the transition.
My experiences have shaped my commitment to advocating for the well-being of not only fellow veterans, but anyone who struggles with PTSD, anxiety and depression, emphasizing the importance of sharing stories, providing support, and fostering a culture that prioritizes mental health.
When you recognize it in yourself to need the help, when you take proactive steps towards healing, you not only empower yourself, you become a story of resilience that empowers others.
Together, we can navigate the transition with strength, resilience, and a renewed sense of purpose.
Resources that you can turn to for support and guidance:
1. Veterans Crisis Line: Provides confidential support for veterans and their families in times of crisis. Available 24/7.
— Website: https://www.veteranscrisisline.net/
— Phone: 1–800–273–8255 (Press 1)
2. National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): Offers information, support, and advocacy for individuals and families affected by mental health conditions.
— Website: https://www.nami.org/
— Helpline: 1–800–950-NAMI (6264) (Monday through Friday, 10:00 am to 6:00 pm ET)
3. Make the Connection: Provides resources and support for veterans and their families dealing with mental health challenges.
— Website: https://maketheconnection.net/
4. Veterans Affairs (VA): Offers a range of mental health services for veterans, including counseling, therapy, and support groups.
— Website: https://www.mentalhealth.va.gov/
5. PsychArmor Institute: Provides online courses and resources on topics related to military culture, mental health, and transition.
— Website: https://psycharmor.org/
6. Military OneSource: Offers free confidential counseling and support services for service members and their families.
— Website: https://www.militaryonesource.mil/
7. Wounded Warrior Project (WWP): Provides programs and services to support injured veterans and their families.
— Website: https://www.woundedwarriorproject.org/
8. Combat Stress: UK-based charity providing support for veterans dealing with mental health issues.
— Website: https://www.combatstress.org.uk/
9. Cohen Veterans Network: Offers free mental health services for veterans and their families.
— Website: https://www.cohenveteransnetwork.org/
10. Local Veterans Organizations: Many communities have local veterans organizations that provide support, camaraderie, and resources. These can vary by location, so it’s worth researching what’s available in your area.
For readers who may not be affiliated with the military but are still seeking support for mental health challenges or transition-related issues, here are some resources:
1. National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): Offers information, support, and advocacy for individuals and families affected by mental health conditions.
— Website: https://www.nami.org/
— Helpline: 1–800–950-NAMI (6264) (Monday through Friday, 10:00 am to 6:00 pm ET)
2. Mental Health America (MHA): Provides resources, screening tools, and information on mental health conditions.
— Website: https://www.mhanational.org/
3. Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA): Offers a national helpline and treatment locator for mental health and substance use disorders.
— Website: https://www.samhsa.gov/
— Helpline: 1–800–662-HELP (4357) (24/7, confidential, free referral and information service)
4. American Psychological Association (APA): Provides information on finding a psychologist and resources for mental health issues.
— Website: https://www.apa.org/
5. Crisis Text Line: Offers free, 24/7 support for people in crisis via text message.
— Website: https://www.crisistextline.org/
— Text HOME to 741741
6. Local Mental Health Services: Many communities have local mental health clinics, counseling centers, or support groups. Contacting your local health department or searching online can help you find services available in your area.
7. Online Therapy Platforms: Platforms like BetterHelp, Talkspace, and Amwell offer online therapy and counseling services, making mental health support more accessible.
8. Employee Assistance Programs (EAP): Many employers offer EAP services, providing confidential counseling and resources for employees and their families.
9. Community Centers and Religious Organizations: Community centers, churches, mosques, synagogues, and other religious organizations often offer support groups, counseling services, or referrals to mental health professionals.
10. Self-Help Books and Resources: There are numerous self-help books, websites, and online resources available for coping with mental health challenges, managing stress, and navigating life transitions. Libraries, bookstores, and online retailers are good places to find these resources.
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